When Is It Going To Happen?

I recently spoke to a great client who has been looking for both a job and boyfriend for a while now.

In our session, it was evident to me that Georgina had been following her guidance and doing the right things to bring her closer to these goals.

Over the months we had been working together, she had set clear intentions and shifted her perspective a great deal.  She had begun readying herself and her environment for the changes she intended to manifest.  In short, she was on the right track.

But then she experienced some minor setbacks and entered into a natural "lull" period.  Not much seemed to be happening.  She became frustrated.  And suddenly it seemed to her--or at least to the part of her that was doing the seeming--that she might never get what she wanted.  She began to feel like she was back at square one.

So she called me.  And I looked at her astrology, turned over a few cards, listened to the guidance that came through.  I reported my findings to her:  all signs were pointing in the right direction.

Georgina sighed audibly and moaned the eternal question:  "Then, when's it gonna happen?"

As you might imagine, this is a question I get asked a lot.  And there are many ways of addressing this very real concern.  But in this call, as in many like it, the answer was perfectly clear.

"It is happening!" I told her.

There was a moment of stunned silence on the other end of the line.  Something told me to wait it out.  In a few seconds, the energy shifted.  She got it.

"All right," she said.  "I suppose the question is ‘what do I need to do to allow it in?’"

I told her to go back, in her mind, to that time not long ago when she really felt she was on the right track and that it was in the process of happening.
 That was the feeling she needed now.  If she could get back to that feeling, the manifestation would take care of itself.

"I can do that," she said.  "Thanks for putting it that way."

"No problem," I told her.  "In fact, I'm writing an article about this very topic.  Do you mind if I include this conversation?"

"Not at all," she said, "but, please give me a great name, like... Georgina.  I've always wished my mom would have named me that."

While that particular question "When will it happen?" is a very common and valid one, it can also be a trap to think in the manner of "One fine day...I will have the right job, house, boyfriend,  and then I will suddenly feel good.  Then I will be complete and fulfilled.”

The course of action I recommend for any client who may have the slightest inclination to feel this way, is to really create the feeling that having the job, relationship, home would give you.  Create it right where you are, in the shoes you’re standing in now.  In this way, you become energetically aligned with that which you desire.  And when you are aligned, and only then, it will come.

But--and I think this is key--your life won’t be night and day different when it does come, because you’ve created an environment that welcomed, through positive expectation, the manifestation of your desire.  It’s like setting up a guest room for a visiting friend, all the while anticipating his arrival, and when he does arrive, you are ready for him because you’ve been expecting him and you’ve created a space for him by setting up the room. 

For Georgina, I could see that it was entirely possible that she could achieve both of her objectives by the end of the year.  Whether or not she does, of course, is completely up to her.  It is dependent on three things:  1) Her Inner Circle presence --or, to simplify it, the creation and maintenance of a high energetic vibration).  2) Her Intentionality, specifically her willingness to hold the vision even when the external evidence has yet to appear.  3) Her way of Being--as in being the person who would attract what she has asked for.  This includes her habits as well as her receptivity to guidance and willingness to act as guided.

I have faith in Georgina’s ability to create what she has intended, just as I know that you also have the ability to manifest what you want.  If you have read this far, you understand.  Have faith that you have been heard, and hold the vision. It is happening now!

Need more support in realizing and allowing your desires?  Call me at (619)
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